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Adult ADD in the Service Industry
Do you ever wonder how some people ever get anything done?

The “service” industry is a hot bed for individuals with Adult ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder).

Attracted to the variety of the business as a line employee, these highly charged multi-taskers are wonderful “troubleshooters” that can think quickly on their feet and often diffuse difficult customer issues. Their charm and ability to juggle lots of balls at once often earns them a promotion into management. Here is where they are challenged to execute not in the moment but over a sustainable period of time.

Adults typically “out grow” the hyperactivity that is associated with ADHD in children, however, they continue to struggle with (and try to cover up) the following symptoms...:


Lack of Focus:
 Quickly lose interest in long term project

Lack of Organization:  Start multiple projects and finish few

Restlessness:  Fidget and easily become distracted, especially during meetings

Difficulty Prioritizing:  Allow unimportant issues to consume their  time with the same level of
urgency as a burning bush in front of them

Procrastination: Become overwhelmed with tasks that require multiple steps so instead they
avoid them all together

This lack of ability to execute sends a chain reaction up the ranks although the ADD manager is
typically disciplined for their failure to deliver results, it is often the manager the next level up that is
penalized for their inability to “manage” (i.e. motivate/hold accountable/and inspire) the ADD
associate.

Ten (10)  SOLUTIONS for dealing with an adult with ADD tendencies:

  1. Seat them in meetings so that they face a wall rather than an  “open door” or window
  2. Pick specific times to talk to them rather than “talking on the fly”
  3. Make eye contact
  4. Ask the ADD adult to write down what they agreed upon
  5. Encourage the ADD adult to file information by categories rather than alphabetical (it will make more
    sense to them)
  6. Encourage “color coding”---Many ADD individuals are visually stimulated (i.e. daily to-do’s are in the
    red file/Mon.-blue/Tues.-green/Wed. yellow, etc.)
  7. Encourage structure and rituals
  8. Help them break large initiatives into smaller tasks
  9. Help them to prioritize
  10. Give them lots of encouragement (most ADD adults were not diagnosed as children and have therefore grown up “letting people down,” many struggle to keep up their self-esteem)

Remember:


The service industry ATTRACTS these people for very good and mutually beneficial reasons! Their behavior is not by choice---they are literally just WIRED differently! Engage them, manage them appropriately, and
watch their imaginations soar!


To read more about it, check out: ADD in the Workplace: Choices, Changes, Challenges


 
Rejection or Re-direction 
I was recently reminded of a favorite 80’s pastime: Pac Man. Although I’m not a video guy, I did like Pac Man. It was simple, you gobbled along a path until you hit a wall and then you switch directions and you gobbled along that path until you hit another wall, and then you switch directions again. If you didn’t switch directions, however, or you just stood still, there were these “its” that would gobble you up!

Have you ever felt that in “real life?”

Like you’re gobbling along a path that seems perfectly fine and then you hit a wall and suddenly the “its” are all caving in on you?

Pac Man serves as a metaphor to remind us that we do have options. Hitting a wall, while personally may feel like rejection, may in fact simply be an opportunity for re-direction.

  1. Create options – Make a list of 10 jobs you would love to do if salary wasn’t an issue.
  2. Build resources – Make a connection with someone associated with at least 3 of those jobs (i.e. get to know the local manager at Starbucks---who knows, maybe you’ll be the first to know when they have a VP job open, or if you want a faster pace closer to home, an Assistant Managers job…J)
  3. Go on a financial diet – Challenge your family to live on half your salary for a month…if it works, do it again---each month you diet, put the extra “fat” in a Certificate of Deposit (still liquid but not so easy to cash out).  Trimming the fat in your spending habits will eventually lighten your load and open your possibilities.

 

The one “it” we can all count on encountering at least once in our career is the “it” of termination---either by our own choice, our bosses choice, or the economy’s choice…Be ready, be agile, be free…


 

3 Step Exercise


Step 1: Make a list of 7 priorities in your life and rank the top 3

Step 2: Go to your top 3 priorities and ask yourself “What’s 1 thing I could do in the next 3 months to honor this priority?”

Step 3: Schedule that 1 thing in your calendar and DO IT…

 That’s it… 

Like I said, if it feels good, try it again… All it takes is a little self care to make a BIG difference in your life!


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